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When our soldier went to Basic Training last year, we wrote letters every day. We talked on the phone every night during AIT. Since graduation, we've spent everyday together, with the exception of a month of training at NCT, where we returned to the phone calls. During all of that time, we could never really account for our time. So many little things happened that I never thought to share. I hope to remedy that with this Blog.

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Day 9: No Rest for the Weary

Besides not sleeping well at night, and passing out in the wee hours of the morning only to wake up with the birds a few hours later, the today was rather uneventful. We woke up, I took Nik to school, I skipped PWOC to cut coupons for my Coupon Swap ladies, did a little laundry, went to work, and came back home again. 

I am exhausted, but I can't get to sleep, nor can I stay asleep at night. Everyone suggests sleeping aids, but the problem with that is I am home alone with a three-year-old. What happens when I take a sleep aid and then I cannot get up to help him? 

My mother-in-law told me not to hesitate seeking help if I needed it. That my doctor can prescribe mild antidepressants. Sometimes, I swear that woman forgets everything I've ever told her. I've pretty much dealt with depression my entire life, even as a child. I had a grandmother and a mother who both battled regular bouts of depression, and when you add a violent ex-husband to the mix, I did, too. Only I took the last one I ever want to take the day I kicked that ex-husband out of my life. I know the signs. Social reclusivness is second only to wanting to sleep it all away, at least for me. Pretty sure I've got that one backwards at the moment. 

I also know that it can be a slippery slope and it can be sneaky, too. But I have work and I have friends and I have a child who needs me. I'm not saying it won't happen, I'm just saying I'm not going to jump on that bandwagon. I will not say I'm "depressed" or "having a depression" unless I am. And even then, I'll probably only say it to my doctor. 

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